add pointers to the gpu external memory paper (#5684)

doc/tutorials/external_memory.rst

@@ -52,6 +52,8 @@ data to further reduce GPU memory usage:
     'sampling_method': 'gradient_based',
   }
 
+For more information, see `this paper <https://arxiv.org/abs/2005.09148>`_.
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