[CI] Require C++17 + CMake 3.18; Use CUDA 11.8 in CI (#8853)

* Update to C++17

* Turn off unity build

* Update CMake to 3.18

* Use MSVC 2022 + CUDA 11.8

* Re-create stack for worker images

* Allocate more disk space for Windows

* Tempiorarily disable clang-tidy

* RAPIDS now requires Python 3.10+

* Unpin cuda-python

* Use latest NCCL

* Use Ubuntu 20.04 in RMM image

* Mark failing mgpu test as xfail

tests/buildkite/build-jvm-packages-gpu.sh

@@ -14,5 +14,7 @@ else
 fi
 
 tests/ci_build/ci_build.sh jvm_gpu_build nvidia-docker \
-  --build-arg CUDA_VERSION_ARG=${CUDA_VERSION} tests/ci_build/build_jvm_packages.sh \
+  --build-arg CUDA_VERSION_ARG=${CUDA_VERSION} \
+  --build-arg NCCL_VERSION_ARG=${NCCL_VERSION} \
+  tests/ci_build/build_jvm_packages.sh \
   ${SPARK_VERSION} -Duse.cuda=ON ${arch_flag}